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Ashley Robinson: how my family has grown through a prison ordeal in paradise

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At the time of writing I am having a week away from work, which is the first time I have done so since February, 2020.

That was when I was in Bali visiting my stepson Brendon, who is in Kerobokan Prison serving a drug possession sentence.

A jail wall in Bali. Picture: Shutterstock.

He was first arrested in August 2018 and I was a regular visitor until COVID changed our lives last year.

You wouldn’t exactly call my visits a holiday, but way back at the start of this life-changing experience a parent of another Australian prisoner told me that to make it bearable you needed to at least make part of your visit a holiday.

I thought it was odd advice at the time but it was on the money, so for every visit I tried to have the weekend to myself (the prison is shut to visitors on weekends).

I found that during the week I understood the prison system, the inmates and the visitors just a little bit better and on the weekends I understood the culture and the wonderful people on the island, which definitely gave me some comfort.

Locals plant rice seeds in Bali. Picture: Shutterstock.

Of course, this all stopped last year but, hopefully, I will be able to return in the new year.

This week I have been able to reflect on what I have learned over the past three-and-a-half years.

I have learned that while I thought we as a family were in a terrible situation, I understood there were far more people worse off than us.

I have learned our friends and community have been amazing support and our family has grown through this ordeal.

I have gained a family in Bali who have helped us – no, actually saved us – and Mahoyda and his tribe will always be an important part of our family and we are eternally grateful.

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The people of Bali have treated Ashley and his family well. Picture: Sunshine Coast.

Brendon has just over a year to go and I look forward to getting over there again to see him and the many locals I have got to know, from people that sell me stuff I don’t need but I feel their need is mightier than mine, to the guards and staff at the prison who have always treated me well.

I pray that Brendon stays safe and healthy.

I also have realised I have to stop calling him a stepson and correct people that do, as through this whole saga he has stepped up and owned his mistakes and made me step up and own mine.

Stay safe and stay strong son.

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