The holiday season can be tough for families dealing with divorce or separation, especially when children are involved.
Emotions run high and the pressures can make things even harder.
Here are some tips to help you navigate the season smoothly:
- Plan ahead: communicate early to agree on plans, including times and locations, to avoid last-minute stress.
- Respect agreements: stick to pick-up and drop-off times. Children deserve to enjoy the holidays without feeling caught in the middle.
- Encourage kindness: if the children are with you on Christmas morning, encourage them to call their other parent. This sets a positive example of respect.
- Limit alcohol: excess drinking often leads to conflict. Keep it in check to maintain a peaceful day.
- Be flexible when needed: if plans must change, give your ex-partner plenty of notice and apologise for doing so.
- Stay positive: avoid negative comments about your ex around the children. They love both parents and need your support.
- Take care of yourself: use child-free time to rest and recharge, so you’re at your best when you are together.
Every day with your children can be special. Don’t let holiday pressures overshadow the joy of parenting.
Liz Catton, Director, Accredited Family Law Specialist, Catton & Tondelstrand Lawyers, Kon-Tiki Business Centre Tower 1, Level 3, Suite 315, 55 Plaza Parade, Maroochydore, 5609 4933, ctlawyers.com.au.
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